Monday, February 2, 2009
happy...happiness and trying to be happy...
diz is a good topic to talk about i think...and diz gonna b a long one also...haha..lets talk about HAPPINESS...first,lemme ask u...r u a happy person...and d answer is if u have to think before u answer..or u pause...likely u r not-so-happy person...why i said so u may ask me back....welll u r d one who answer d question with a pause..hesitate....not sure...happy person know he is happy....he dont have to think he is happy or not...he juz.......juz happy...i mean a happy person dont have to "make do with what he have" to b happy..he dont have to "think of how to make hinself happy" to b happy...a happy person juz go about with his life without even thinking about happiness or how to b happy..trying to b happy and finding way to be happy is what unhappy people do ...and having to think to d question of 'r u a happy person' simply mean u r not so happy..what is happiness..how u describe happiness...to different person,its means differently..but in general,its all d same for everyone of us....happiness is d best thing in life one can get.....whats dat u asking...?am i happy..am i happy...?well...i erm...i....kinda...well...
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u paused!! u paused to ur own q.. haha..
ReplyDeletewell, i think, each of us will. pausing before answering d q i mean.
c'mon, we r not kids. not anymore. we 'define' happiness. we have a set of rules on how to be happy.
we put 'rules' on how to be happy. when i have this. when i have that. when i am with *insert a person name here*. when i'm able to do this. when i'm able to do that. when... when.. when.. lotsa whens.
dats where ur 'how to be happy' comes in. when we put rules to it, then d state of being happy is determined whether all these 'rules' r met. then we decide that we r 'very happy', 'happy', 'not happy', 'suicidal' etc.
but strangely, hv it ever occur to u dat... all d whens r never enough? we said when we hv 'this' we'll be happy. but when we do hv 'this', we crave something more, something better. a car for instance. let just say dat someone said dat he'd be happy if he has his own home. so he gets himslef a nice decent apartment. then sudenly, he thinks dat a semi-d is better. he worked for it, n when he got it, he no longer happy, because he wished for a bungalow instead. now dat he has one, he wants one dat has its own pool n tennis court. u see what i mean? it will never stops.
because of y? because of d list we had earlier. d problem is, d list is never static. it evolves.. it's different then, n d list is different now. it certainly wont b d same tomorrow.
so, u can ask a person d same question, n he will hv a different answer everytime..