yourself,myself,ourself

is there any other person who know u better than urself..or is there anyone who know someone else better than he know himself..the thing with ourself is we often think we know ourself.but often enuf,we misunderstood that knowing with some idea of how we think we are(ok,that sound a bit confusing but u know what i mean right).sometime we think we know ourself only to be suprised of what we are capable .or maybe what we are uncapable of..maybe we used to be capable and slong the way,we become uncapable without us knowing it.coz there is no other way to know what we are uncapable of(or capable of for that matter) till we come across it...till then just dont be too sure about urself

my way,or the highway..

theres only 2 way to look at things.theres a clear way and then theres a clouded way.clear way is when u do all the thinking,making the decision and taking the action with realistic approach.clouded way is when u put in ur feeling,ur emotion.more often than not,we will be divided of which way to approach things when something arise.this is because more often than not,our emotion,feeling and such will always manage to be on the other side of sensibility,rationality and let alone realistic approach.and we actualy aware of this.we know we are doing this.we know we are mixing things that should not...ok.this is not what i have in mind actually..this is not even close to the issue i wanna write..but what the heck,this is my blog and im entitled to write whatever i want here..

life..again

have u ever ask urself what is it that u look for in ur life.have u ever wonder why u work so hard(if u work hard that is).have u ever thought the reason u do all the things u do.why u go to the movie,why u buy that shirt,why u go out n meet up with friend and why u read that book.would u agree if i say that what u look for is HAPPINESS.but the thing is,happiness is a tricky thing.many of us tricked into thinking that money can make us happy albeit everyone have heard the saying that money cant buy happiness.well,why did u work so hard if u r not after the money..so the answer for what we look for in our life is lots of money in hope it will lead us to happiness.but will money make us really happy.thats the question that only time and money will answer.in the meanwhile,can i have that lots of money first..?

adat resam melayu

what do u think of our custom.i mean traditional custom.such as in wedding,in celebrating festivities and such.me,im not a big fan of traditional custom.coz if u think about it...lemme takl about this in malay..much better i think.adat resam melayu kita..atas dasar apa adat resam melayu kita ni diasaskan.dan anda perasan tak betapa orang melayu kita ni,kalau bab nikah kawin kemain lagi nak ikut adat resam tapi bila bawak kereta,haram nak ingat pasal adat resam ke budi pekerti ke.dan betul ke adat resam tu memang adat kita.bukan cuma satu benda yang pasa satu masa dulu ntah mana punya mamat dah buat menda tu sebagai satu cara nak lawan kenduri jiran dia..(wait,that is one of the adat resam tu sendiri regarding kerja kawin ne kan..berlawan sapa lagi grand)..banyak jugak adat resam ni dah tak relevan.satu masa dulu,mmg ramai golongan berumur makan sirih.maka sirih junjung menang la patut..tapi sekarang ni dah pupus dah golongan pemakan sirih berbangsa melayu.maka takyah la nak sibuk ngan sirih junjung lagi...tetiba aku da ilang mood nak crita benda ni....

love..or something like it

what do u think about love.i personaly think i no longer believe in love.for me,love is just an illusion we creat in ourself to humour our brain into believeing something that will make us happy.however quite often than not,many of people who fall for this illusion find thierself to be hurt by the very thing that supposedly make them feel good.quite a few great empire,great people,great fallen and succumb just because of this love thing.so,is love really a good thing.well,what happened to lots of marriage that based on love that crumble and end up with divorce.if love is real,can love fade away..can love destroy.can love keep people alive.can love kills.if u ask me what make a relationship last,its not love.its 2 people who work together with determination to make it work.no amount of love can save a relationship once one party decide enough is enough.so in another word,love is just a phoney thing to base a relationship on.there mutual respect,theres mutual benefit,theres mutual happiness,theres mutual everything..once the mutualness start to wear off,thats when the relationship strat to crumble,piece by piece..so ask yourself,what love really is..