for......give..get..

lets forgive and forget,they say.now d question is can we do both..sincerely dat is.and how do we differentiate between forgive but not forget and vice versa.to forgive,u dont have to forget.well,how can u forget something if u need to forgive it.its gotta be sumthing big,dats y it need a forgiveness.and we dont forget sumthing big.we can forget when ppl trip n spill coffee on us.we can forget when ppl make some stupid remarks.but can we forget if our partner cheat on us.no we cant.can we forgive....dats depend on individual.but i suppose no we cant.but somehow some can find a way to .....tolerate...not forget it but tolerate it.and how can we forget bt dont forgive.if its sumthing forgetable,why unforgivable...so dont u think forgive and forget...juz dont happen in real life.u may think u forget it.but if u ever get mad at d same person again,it all will come back.how they did diz n dat back sometime ago and how u thot they changed and u give them second chance.dats not forgeting.so next time u juz say lets forgive.or forget.for d sake of sincerity...